Frequently Asked Questions
What makes Dating Over Coffee different?
Dating Over Coffee is more than "an app"—it’s a method designed to help you find the right person without all the frustration and exhaustion. We do things differently. Instead of leaving you to endless swiping, we offer a guided approach that takes the guesswork out of dating, saving you time and energy. Our curated connections are carefully matched introductions designed with intention, not algorithms chasing your attention. And with Authentic Connect, our signature blend with a human touch, we work to make sure the people in the Dating Over Coffee community are genuine.
How does the "Dating Over Coffee Method" work?
Our method guides you to identify your personal dating brand, create a personalized dating plan to avoid burnout, and reflect on your experiences with purpose and humor. It’s about being intentional and building real connections.
In what way do you curate connections?
We invite new members to schedule a 30-minute “Get to Know You” video call with one of our Connection Baristas. It’s a relaxed conversation where we learn more about you, your goals, and the kind of connections you’re looking for—while also giving you a chance to share what feels like the right match for you.
From there, we make the suggested connections for you, so you can spend less time searching and more time building something real.
What is "Authentic Connect"?
During our 30-minute Get to Know You call, we’ll ask you to provide simple verification to confirm that you are who you say you are. Anyone unwilling to provide verification will not have an Authentic Connect Badge on their profile. We use trusted online tools to confirm identity, however this is not a background check like you’d complete for employment. It’s a straightforward process to ensure that every member is genuine is who they say they are. Click Here for more details on what Authentic Connect is and IS NOT.
How does your Zero-BS Policy Work?
Sadly, online communication hasn’t always brought out the best in people. That’s why we ask every member to commit to being respectful, kind, and authentic. Dating Over Coffee isn’t about getting millions of subscribers—it’s about the right subscribers. Our goal is to build a subscriber base built for like-minded people who are genuinely serious about finding the right person. Anyone choosing to NOT follow our community guidelines will be removed.
Can I sign up without getting the workbook?
You can but, why would you? Dating Over Coffee isn’t just another dating guide — it’s your personal roadmap to dating with clarity, confidence, and a sense of humor. Discover how to define your unique dating brand, build a smart strategy that prevents burnout, and reflect on your experiences with intention. Whether you’re just getting back out there or looking to reboot your approach, this book helps you date with purpose — and actually enjoy the process.
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